You know, I find it funny how I have to help when I should be studying when someone who doesn't need to study and does nothing but lazy around the place doesn't do anything. I mean really?!?!
Alright I don't mind helping out especially if it is for my mum if it was for my dad i would be. . . Mieh do I have to kind of thing. But it is my mum and she does everything and takes cares of everything around the house. So my mum recently is experiencing some back pain and from what I hear from her it really hurts. She is limping and it isn't very good and I worry for her.
She even considered to work 2morrow but I told her she shouldn't. She wanted to work for the money she wants to provide money for herself and so that way she at least as something to say to my dad when he says he earns "All" the money. I understand her view point but I told her what is more important money or your health and obviously she agrees with me that it was her health.
Sigh~ Problems are arising for my mum and I worry for her especially when she refuses to rest cause of all the things she has to do at home. My point being was that my dad instead of watching his stupid TV can't he do things for himself. I mean he can make his own lunch tomorrow and he tells me how good he is at cooking and all that then making a sandwich for yourself isn't asking too much is it.
He tells me to help my mum with house chores and so forth but what about you is what I want to ask. I have a good reason to not help out and that is I am doing the . . . . HSC. He doesn't understand how stressful that is going to be cause he hasn't done it and another thing is he (and my mum) are giving me this pressures of doing well and all that. Well think about you want me to do well then give as much time I need to study and not help out for your selfish needs.
But again as I said I would help out my mum without him even requesting cause I am considerate and I understand that my mum is in pain. I know my dad sort of understands but if he really does understand he would help out cause he has absolute nothing to do at home ok other than watching whatever he is watching I just don't understand why he can't move his own feet and arms and help out there is just no reason.
On the good side, my dad is a bit more caring but not in most best way. He sort tells my mum to rest and says oh your problem is not big ok I have it worst and blah blah blah. It is the common thing I hear all the time with his complaining. He tells my mum not to complain when he does the exact same thing. I mean hypocrite!
Anyway, I feel happy that my dad cares but then the way he acts on it seriously irritates me. The way he won't help out when he has nothing more important to do and that he would judge that his pains is more worse than someone else's cause what does he know should sympathise a bit more ok. . .
Yup that is him, the lazy, not sympathetic hypocrite. I will help but not cause he asks because I am worried about my mum and willing to sacrifice my study time to help her. That is my little rant.
Hehe~ Don't worry I am still happy just somethings that really riled me up. Oh well return back to my normal state. ^-^
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