So he says that my mum is like worst mum ever and who my sister is better than her a being a mum and how every other woman around the world is better than her and blah blah blah. You know how much that pissed me off, but I know if I tell him off well than I wouldn't be here right now blogging. My mum admitted that between all shanghainese woman she is a little worst cause she is more careless and not precise.
You want to here my opinion and of course this is bias view cause it is my mum but I believe she is the best mum in the world. Yes she annoys me and pressures me to do work but deep inside I know she is looking out for me and cares a lot for me. I don't understand how my dad could see my mum as such a horrible person because honestly she is the most wonderful person ever, she has just the best personality.
The things my dad says as well is so hypocritical cause you know he says how my mum doesn't treat him well enough and is selfish and doesn't think of him and so forth. I thought to myself, where does he get that information from? I mean my mum is one of the least selfish person in the family. She leaves all the nice food for everyone else to eat and one no one wants to eat it anymore she eats and I guess that is what mums do but still. Mums are the least selfish people. But my dad in the other hand, I mean does he even care about my mum? Does he ever take a tiny bit of time in his life to stop complaining and think about how my mum is? He is the selfish one and you know what even he does take a little but of the time to see if my mum is ok, he only does for his advantage.
Many might think how do I know this. I know cause I've seen it, he asks about my mum and if she is fine he would be like ok then come help me with this or that. Normally he doesn't even ask and just orders her around. What do you think she is? She isn't a slave and this isn't the olden age where woman I expected to be housewives and do all the choirs and support the husband and so forth.
My dad honestly does not have a heart cause a topic came up and said if I person who is really dirty and is bursting to go to the toilet would you let that person in? My dad said that he was like really dirty and would make the toilet really disgusting and so forth and ask if I would let the person in. I said I would (considering that he isn't a bad guy) because I feel so guilty and evil and bad if I didn't. My dad didn't believe me, he said you don't understand the situation, you don't understand who disgusting the person. Yes I don't but who cares, I mean I don't want to make this person burst his bladder or something. My mum said when he was younger and old lady from the country side came to ask to go to the bathroom and she really need to go and my dad so no to her.
It just shows what kind of person my dad is ever since he was young. I don't understand what my mum saw in my dad that time. I don't understand how my dad stayed with my mum if he genuinely thinks that my mum is the worst woman in the world. I don't understand. >.<
I know, I shouldn't talk about my dad this way but just the things he says pisses me off and the things he does. I don't understand his logic. How can someone have so little feelings and care for others (there is a a word for that but I can't remember it). Sigh~ I will stop where I am and not rage more about how bad my dad is cause I know it is wrong and you shouldn't cause I am meant to be an "obedient" daughter. Stuff that I won't until he becomes a person I would respect. (I could never do anything bad to him though. I feel really bad if I did and sometimes calling my dad names would make me feel guilty which I shouldn't considering his personality but it does)
Sigh~ Nothing to say. Except:
MY MUM IS THE BEST AND I LOVE HER SO VERY VERY MUCH!!!
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