Some people in life get ask from their parents whether they like their mum better or their dad. I hate when these situations comes up because how are you meant to choose and even if you can choose, you wouldn't want to say it to them because you know you will hurt one of their feelings. I have been but in that spotlight before but the worse one is not the fact they ask who you like better but ask you if you agree with them about how your other parent is a bad parent. I don't want to choose a side because this feud does not involve me it is between you two.
It is a tough position to be in one you need to decided between to people especially if you care about them a lot. I admit I will always be on my mum's side but I wouldn't say it to my dad even though how much he annoys me because I still care about his feelings even he doesn't care about mine. I don't want to be the same person he is because that is just making me a hypocrite like him, so no way am I growing up like him. My mum, to me is the best person in the world, no one in the world can ever be better than my mum's personality and anyone has her as a mother, sister, daughter, wife or even a friends would be grateful to have her (unlike my dad). I get all my best personalities from my mum. My mum is caring, loving, not easily angered and never puts herself first. I love my mum because really there is nothing bad about her, I can't find anything that makes her personality bad. . . well my mum is quiet loud when she is talking but doesn't degraded my mums enormous caring heart. My dad on the other hand is completely the opposite which I hope I would NEVER EVER BE LIKE HIM. My dad too me is the worst person on earth, yes I care about him only because he is my dad nothing else I can say. I know people think, he can't be that bad but you can't say that because you don't know him and I am sure you don't want to. Think about if I am saying this about my own biological dad which normal daughters usually we'll love and care about so much but I don't love him I just care about him cause I have to and I can't see people suffer no matter how much I really dislike her/him (Too nice or just a big weirdo).
Anyway, my main point is I don't want to be in the middle of their arguments and truth be told I will always be on my mum's side because for one I don't believe a word my dad says about her and second he is unreasonable and won't listen to anyone else reasoning. Sigh~~ I know it is wrong to dislike my dad this much but I can't help it. I really don't want anything to do with him but I know that he is my dad I can't change the fact that I would be the only one he can depend on when he is older.
Oh well. End of my ranting
Bye-bees~
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