If I was born a. . .

Do you ever think about how different life would be in you were born a boy instead of a girl or born a girl instead of a boy?

In this world, in this society, according to my dad (who I must say seems to still live in the past) thinks that boys would always be more favoured or lenient against somethings that women would not get away with. According to him, girls need to know how to care for the house, clean, cook do every household chore. Meanwhile, men like him how work can come home and just lounge on the couch and do nothing. All he does is complain, things he can do I cant do. It is just that he is such a big hypocrite.

He says you treat this house as a hotel and you don't do anything in the house. Yeah well ur the one to talk. Like you clean the house, take out the rubbish or do ANY of the household chores just cause you earn all the money doesn't mean you have control of everyone and everything around you.

You know what this house it nothing to me. Nothing because a house where you live gives you shelter, warmth, love and safety. Like I always say before what this house brings to me is emptiness, horror, fear and sadness. Who in the right mind wants a house like that. If you want me to leave just say the word. I will go. I leave without looking back and don't ever regret your decision.

I HATE how boys get the advantage over some many things at home. They can get away with a mess room, or coming home late or having girlfriends. I know if I was a boy he would not tell me off for coming home late or getting a girlfriend or having a mess room. I would get away with anything at home. I just know it.

This is just at my home though. I know in real society so many get treated worse depending on the situation. For example, rape, everyone thinks that guys are all ways the ones that rape someone but there are maybe not a lot but there are girls rapist in the world. and from what I heard sometimes girls and get away in society with a few tears while a guy are usually believe to have bullied the girl or done something and instead they are the one at fault when in fact the girl in tears made a mistake.

The world is just unfair. No matter how you look at it, there is always gonna be cases where boys have more of an advantage of girls and few times that girls would have advantages over boys. Similar to any other issues such as racist, white people tend to always be treated better than any other. Not saying it is always like that but majority of the time boys over girls and white race over any other.

Is it fair? No. Can we change it? Maybe. But the time we are living now, unfairness and unequal rights are everywhere you look. Deny it if you want but face the facts. This is our life and our children in the future would be brought into a world like this. I wanna make a change. I will teach my children that this is not acceptable. Boys and girls are equal they are able to do anything and everything that wanna and no one can say otherwise. I will teach them that the colour of skin doesn't determine how you are because what matter is ur heart, ur mind, ur personalities that matters and you shouldn't be treat differently because of your appearance.

I am becoming a teacher and I would hopefully teach my students about this, hoping that there family don't imprint an old fashion mind set like my parents. I hope the world would change. This right now, even though it is better than the past the traces of unjust acts are still present.

Lets all change that. We need to make a stand for it.