So I think I have talked about this before but my dad has some ... interesting... well not really interesting but... i guess horrible views that most people will hate.
My dad always thinks that my sister and my relationship was ruined because of my mum and her always picking fights but honestly he should really open his eyes. My mum... i guess sometimes spoils me and let me do things my dad doesn't which is usually why im close to my mum that and because she is way more understanding then my dad is. In fact a rock is more understanding then my dad.
Anyway so he is going through a lot of discomfort due to his therapy he is currently undergoing and i was wondering how to reduce nausea and vomiting. My mum explains says that it is similar to being pregnant sometimes if u have to vomit there is nothing u can do about it. But my dad is like vomiting in pregnancy is normal and not harmful to the body. I am not saying he is wrong and i understand that what he is going through defs more harmful but he said it in away that should he lack sympathy to other people and women specifically. He even later adds that a women's job is to give birth and if she cant handle that then she is kind of like worthless.
Now my dad is clearly talking to the wrong people here. He is talking to 2 females and saying that we should bare with our discomforts because that is what we are meant to do and have kids. Well what if a girl cant have kids for various medical, psychological or purely girls who dont wanna have kids. Does that make them useless? That view was stupid and he knew cause he didnt bother defending are arguing or just he knows that he is outnumbered. But that idea or view he said was outrageous and I was so mad hearing it. Like a women job isn't to give birth ok, we can do a lot of things.
There is possible people out there who still believe that all a women is good for it raising a kid and take care of the home. Well u know what these people need to get there mind back from the past and learn that women don't need your big strong man to provide the money or food for us. We can do it ourselves. I believe in equality. Who said that a man has to earn the money and who said a women has to a housewife. Who said males have to pay for meals and who said a women has to dress up and wear make up. It is stupid ideals that makes this world horrible.
Sigh I think I lost my point i was trying to get across... but point is ... EQUALITY ... (i think...)
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