Sunday, 28 February 2016

Old Traditional Housewife

I really hate my dad's view on women and it might sound like I am being very feminist. . . and maybe I am not really sure. But the thing is my dad's expectation on my mum is just. . . horrible and I really hate and disagree with it.

So he believes that since he is the sole breadwinner in the house that my mum has to take care of everything in the house and I mean everything. Like my mum needs to cook, clean take care of paying the bills and getting everything organised, and he even believes that my mu should do or the in old tradition as manlier jobs like fixing lights other broking things at home and mow the lawn.

I feel that nowadays things has changed and society has or should have gotten use to women earning money as well and is restricted to house chores. Women shouldn't be different to men at all not matter in behaviour, work life anything. We are able human and animals of this world we should be equal.

It feels like being with my dad you are restrict from doing anything without his permission. His word is only thing that matters he just wont back down on his words. Everything he says he believes is correct and no one else can correct him. At times like these I wish that my parents are separated that way my mum and me are free. We would have our free will again, we don't need and won't need anyone else permission to do whatever we want.

The other day I accidently let out the F word after hitting my head and he told me that is bad for a "Women" to say that would. I hate when he says that "Women" has to do this or can't do that. Who in the world stated that women cant do things that men do yes maybe a physique maybe be different but that shouldn't stop us from doing anything. Men can do girly things and not be discriminated and women can do manly things and not be discriminated. Though I feel that women doing manly things are more acceptable then men doing girly things but that might just be me thinking that. But I believe that we shouldn't be discriminated I just sigh. . . Yes I believe, I might be very feminist.

Oh well whatever, my dad is never gonna change and I got deal with it or leave. =.=

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