I have the feeling that people start to change after they start dating from personal experience and reflecting on what I seen from people around me. This is only my perspective on things and possible in some relationships no one changes. But my theory is that the one who has more control in a relationship tend to cause the person they love to change. Or the person with the stronger will would change the person who has a weaker will.
From my experience, I realised that I have changed a bit maybe to some quite a bit. But I know I have changed. I also seen another friend of mine change and some other people I know but really not too sure about it. My sister from what I have seen has changed a lot though I cant judge it that much as I don't know that much about there relationship. However, to me it feels that my sister has a lot of control in her relationship and is very stubborn and independent. I don't know her BF very well but he seem to be very lenient to my sister and I feel that he just goes with the flow.
Sigh~~~ I don't know it is a theory and the reason I thought about this is due to something that happened today and a little discussion with a friend of mine.
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